We’re joined by Ann Russo, a queer therapist, who shares her journey of growing up in a queer household and navigating the complexities of identity, religion, and acceptance. She discusses the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals in religious spaces, the importance of support systems, and the impact of religious trauma. Ann emphasizes the need for therapists to be transparent and knowledgeable about LGBTQ issues and offers insights into finding the right therapist. Our conversation highlights stories of transformation and the significance of intergenerational relationships within the queer community.
Takeaways
- Ann Russo identifies as a queer therapist passionate about the intersection of identity, trauma, and spirituality.
- Growing up in a queer household in the 80s was challenging due to societal prejudice and fear of violence.
- Ann initially resisted her queerness, wanting to ‘pray the gay away’ until she embraced her identity in high school.
- Religion was not a positive force in Ann’s upbringing, leading to curiosity about its teachings later in life.
- Ann immersed herself in conservative Christian spaces to understand the messaging against LGBTQ individuals.
- The transition from fear to acceptance involved social justice activism and creating safe spaces for LGBTQ youth.
- Religious trauma can create barriers for LGBTQ individuals seeking acceptance in progressive religious spaces.
- Support systems, including chosen family and older queer mentors, are crucial for healing and acceptance.
- Finding a therapist who understands the intersection of queerness and religion is essential for LGBTQ individuals.
- Transformation stories highlight the resilience of LGBTQ individuals and the importance of community support.
Chapters
(00:00) Introduction to Queer Identity and Therapy
(03:02) Growing Up in a Queer Household
(05:47) The Intersection of Religion and Queerness
(09:01) Navigating Religious Spaces as a Queer Person
(12:00) Transitioning from Fear to Acceptance
(15:03) Understanding Religious Trauma
(17:54) The Importance of Support Systems
(21:13) Finding a Therapist for LGBTQ Issues
(23:56) Stories of Transformation
(27:10) The Role of Intergenerational Relationships
(30:06) Closing Thoughts and Resources
Resources:
- Learn more about Ann Russo’s work at https://www.annrusso.org/
- Accessible therapy at https://www.amrtherapy.com/
- Join the Sanctuary Collective Community
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