Shame is a huge part of culture and we discuss the role of shame in sex and relationships, particularly in relation to purity culture, and the political repercussions of shame. We explore the historical context of shame, such as the Lavender Scare and the rise of the religious right, and how shame has been used as a tool for control and manipulation. There is such an importance to understanding shame as a systemic and political issue, rather than just a personal emotion. But there is power and resistance in self-acceptance and combating shame by embracing our desires and bodies!
Takeaways
- Shame can be a powerful tool for control and manipulation, and it is important to recognize the political and systemic implications of shame.
- Understanding the historical context of shame, such as the Lavender Scare and the rise of the religious right, helps to shed light on its origins and effects.
- Embracing one’s desires and bodies, and resisting societal shame, can be an act of resistance and self-acceptance.
- Creating a supportive community and engaging in open conversations about shame and desires can be healing and empowering.
Chapters
(03:01)The Political Repercussions of Shame
(06:53) Unpacking the History of Shame and Purity Culture
(12:09) Resisting Shame: Embracing Desires and Bodies
(15:04) Creating a Supportive Community to Combat Shame
Resources:
- Join the Poly Possibilities course at queertheology.com/poly-possibilities
- Join the Sanctuary Collective Community
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