In this conversation, we discuss the intersection of polyamory, spirituality, and faith. We explore why monogamous individuals should care about polyamory, the importance of integrating spirituality and non-monogamy, and how polyamory can inspire new ways of structuring relationships and the world. We also get into the need for proactive positive messages to counteract shame and negative societal messages and highlight the importance of community, family, and intentional living. What would it look like to expand and imagine more expansive and inclusive possibilities for our relationships AND communities?
Takeaways
- Polyamory can offer valuable lessons in communication, intentionality, and dealing with difficult emotions like jealousy, which can benefit monogamous individuals as well.
- Integrating spirituality and non-monogamy is important to counteract shame and negative societal messages, and to define the goodness of polyamory on its own terms.
- Polyamory invites us to expand our notions of community and family, and to imagine more inclusive and just ways of structuring relationships and the world.
- It is important to find spaces where we can bring our whole selves, integrate different aspects of our identities, and cultivate connections with others who share our values.
- Polyamory challenges us to question societal expectations and consider alternative ways of living and relating, fostering a sense of intentionality and joy in our lives.
Chapters
(01:26) Why Monogamous Individuals Should Care About Polyamory
(08:52) Integrating Spirituality and Non-Monogamy
(19:00) Expanding Notions of Community and Family
(25:19) Creating Spaces for Wholeness and Integration
(27:39) Imagining New Possibilities for Relationships and the World
Resources:
- Jesus is Polyamorous
- Join the Poly Possibilities course at queertheology.com/poly-possibilities
- Rituals for Resistance & Resilience part of Spiritual Study Hall
- Join the Sanctuary Collective Community
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