We get into the concept of love and what it means to love well in this episode. We explore the idea that love is not just a feeling or a word, but an action that requires intentionality and commitment. We have to challenge the societal norms of prioritizing romantic relationships and biological families over other types of relationships. It is also so important to show up for others, by being intentional in our actions, and creating systems to support our relationships.
Takeaways
- Love is not just a feeling or a word, but an action that requires intentionality and commitment.
- Societal norms often prioritize romantic relationships and biological family over other types of relationships, but it is important to challenge and question these norms.
- Showing up for others and being intentional in our actions are key aspects of loving well.
- Creating systems and using tools like calendars and reminders can support our relationships and help us remember important dates and commitments.
- Polyamory wisdom can offer valuable insights and practices for all types of relationships, including monogamous ones.
- Clear communication, time management, and intentional living are essential for building and maintaining healthy and loving relationships.
Chapters
(00:35) Exploring the Concept of Love
(03:40) Challenging Societal Norms
(06:06) Being Loved Well and Loved Poorly
(11:10) Love Beyond Traditional Family Structures
(14:28) Prioritizing Relationships and Denigrating Friendships
(18:27) Love as Action and the Importance of Systems
(21:20) Intentionality and Upending Norms
(24:13) The Role of Systems in Loving Well
(26:18) Synergies Between Poly Wisdom, Faith, and Love
(29:37) Being Intentional and Explicit in Relationships
(33:19) Using Tools and Systems to Support Love
(35:27) Polyamory Wisdom for All Relationships
(35:48) Clear Communication, Time Management, and Intentional Living
Resources:
- Join the Poly Possibilities course at queertheology.com/poly-possibilities
- Join the Sanctuary Collective Community
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